The Sun Does Not Ask Permission
The sun is just beginning to touch the horizon, turning the gray into gold, and you are still sitting there, frozen in the silence of their grief. You are terrified that if you move, if you speak, if you reach out, you will say the wrong thing and break them—or worse, make it all your fault again.
So you hold your breath. You become a statue.
But listen to the light arriving in this new hour: your presence is not a performance that requires perfect words. The rising sun does not ask the earth if it is ready to be warmed; it simply shines.
And in that shining, the darkness recedes without a single syllable being spoken. You do not need to fix the pain with your voice.
You only need to be there, letting the light that lives inside you sit beside the light that lives inside them. The silence you are keeping is not empty; it is full of a love that knows how to wait.
You are not responsible for ending their tears. You are only responsible for not leaving them alone in them.
The morning has come, and the light is already holding both of you.
Drawing from
Luke 1:78-79, Gospel of Thomas 24
Verses
Luke 1:78-79
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