the panic that your child has learned to hide their pain from you to keep you calm

The Mask Can Come Down Now

The house is quiet now, but your heart is racing with what you didn't see today. You feel the weight of a smile that came too quickly, a silence that felt too heavy, a child who learned to swallow their pain so you wouldn't have to carry it.

They are protecting you from the very storm they are weathering alone. But listen — the light does not need your performance of strength to do its work.

It sees the hidden things not to expose them, but to heal them. There is a love that lives inside your child that is greater than their fear, and it is already holding them even when they are silent.

You do not have to fix this tonight. You only have to be present, letting the peace that surpasses understanding guard both your hearts.

The mask can come down now; the light is still here.

Drawing from

1 John, Luke

Verses

1 John 4:4, Luke 11:36

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