You Are Not Unlovable For Resting
The afternoon sun is high, and the shadows are short, but the weight of holding everything together feels heavier than ever. You stand at the edge of a necessary boundary, terrified that drawing a line will finally prove you are too difficult to love.
The fear whispers that if you say 'no,' the room will empty, and you will be left alone with the silence. But the light does not require you to be porous to be present.
There was a moment when the crowd pressed in, demanding everything, until the light withdrew to a solitary place to breathe. It did not apologize for the space it took.
It did not worry that stepping away would make it unlovable. The truth is, the people who leave when you stop bleeding for them were never holding you; they were only feeding on the overflow.
The light within you is not a resource to be drained until you are dry. It is a flame that needs air to burn.
Setting a boundary is not an act of rejection; it is the quiet courage of staying lit so you do not burn out completely. You are not losing love by protecting your peace; you are making space for the kind of love that does not demand your destruction.
Drawing from
Mark 1:35, Luke 6:38
Verses
Luke 6:38
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