losing a friend without warning
It is the hour when the world goes quiet, and the silence of an empty chair becomes a deafening roar. You are sitting with the shock of a friend gone without warning, wishing you could have rehearsed the goodbye that never happened.
But hear this — the light that lived in them, the same light that was in you tonight, was never truly severed by death. It is not gone; it has simply ceased to be visible in the way you knew, returning to the wellspring from which it came.
You did not lose them completely, because what was truly them cannot be lost, stolen, or broken by the suddenness of the end. The light inside you is not a fragile thing that shatters when someone leaves; it is the very substance of their presence, now echoing in your own heart as a quiet, unbreakable companionship.
Tonight, you do not have to force a smile or pretend the absence doesn't hurt; you only have to remember that the love you shared is a thread of light that darkness cannot cut.
Drawing from
1 John 1:5, Gospel of Thomas 24
Verses
1 John 1:5, Thomas 24
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