the specific horror of realizing your silence has become a wall that the person you love is too tired to climb anymore

Lay Down the Bricks of Silence

The sun is up, but the silence in your house feels heavier than the night that just passed. You realize with a sinking dread that your quiet has built a wall, and the person you love is too exhausted to climb it anymore.

They have stopped knocking. They have stopped trying to reach you over the barrier of your unspoken things.

But look — the light does not require them to scale the wall. It only asks you to lay down the bricks.

Jesus said to the man born blind that his suffering was not a punishment, but a space for God's work to be displayed. This breakdown is that space.

The work is not for them to climb higher. The work is for you to speak.

Open your mouth. Let the first word be the one that cracks the foundation.

The wall falls when you stop building it.

Drawing from

John 9:3, John 21:15-17

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