the exhaustion of explaining your disability to people who do not understand

Let the Armor Drop in Silence

The sun is setting, and with it, the energy you spent all day justifying your existence begins to drain away. You are tired of translating your pain into words that make sense to people who have never lived in your body.

You are tired of the polite confusion, the unsolicited advice, the way your limits are treated like a puzzle they can solve if you just explain it one more time. But listen — the light does not need an explanation.

It does not require you to defend your fatigue or prove your worthiness to rest. There is a peace that waits for you when the talking stops, a quiet that knows exactly what you carry without you saying a word.

You do not have to make them understand tonight. You only have to let the armor drop.

The light is already sitting with you in the silence, holding the parts of you that are too heavy to lift again.

Drawing from

Luke 10:41-42, Gospel of Thomas 77

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