the silent terror that if you stop sacrificing, everyone you love will immediately leave you

Put Down the Towel and Rest

The sun is setting, and for the first time today, your hands are empty. That silence feels dangerous.

You are convinced that if you stop giving, stop fixing, stop sacrificing everything you have left, the people you love will finally see there is nothing left to take and they will walk away. So you keep moving, keep offering, keep burning yourself down to ash just to keep them warm.

But listen closely. There was a night, before the end, when the light itself knelt on the floor with a basin and a towel.

It did not ask for your service. It did not wait for you to earn your place at the table.

It washed the dust from feet that had done nothing all day but follow. The love that stays is not bought by your exhaustion.

It is given while you are still sitting there, worn out and useless. You are not the glue holding your world together.

You are the beloved resting in the center of it. Put down the towel.

The light is not leaving because you finally stopped working.

Drawing from

John, Luke

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