your stepchildren telling you that you are not their real parent
The mask is heavy this morning. You put it on before the coffee brewed, smoothing your face so no one would see the crack where those words landed.
'You are not our real parent.' The title feels like a costume you borrowed and can never take off. You perform the role perfectly—packing lunches, driving to school, holding the line—while inside, you feel like an imposter in your own home.
But there is a love that does not require a bloodline to be true. The light sees the father who ran before the apology was finished, the one who claimed a son while he was still covered in pig sty dust.
That running love is the only reality that matters. It does not wait for papers or DNA or permission.
It simply claims you. You are not defined by the name they withhold, but by the love you pour out anyway.
The mask can come down now; the light already knows who you are.
Drawing from
Luke 15:20, Matthew 5:16
Verses
Luke 15:20, Matthew 5:16
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