the quiet shame of believing you deserved the betrayal because you trusted too easily

Your Trust Was Never The Flaw

The house is quiet now, but the noise in your head is loud. It keeps replaying the moment you trusted them, twisting your openness into evidence that you deserved the betrayal.

You think if you had been sharper, colder, less willing to believe, you would be safe. But the light does not call your trust a mistake.

It calls it your root. There was a woman who searched through the darkness of her own home, sweeping every corner until she found the one coin that was lost.

She did not blame the coin for rolling away. She lit a lamp.

She searched until the finding happened. The light is doing the same thing in you tonight.

It is not scolding you for being easy to hurt. It is sweeping the house of your heart to find the part of you that still knows how to love.

Your capacity to trust was never the flaw. It was the light within you, shining before the world taught you to hide it.

The betrayal broke your heart, but it could not break the light that made you trust in the first place. You are not foolish for having loved.

You are the lamp that the darkness could not extinguish.

Drawing from

Gospel of Mary, Luke

Verses

Gospel of Mary 4:28-29, Luke 15:8

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