waking up and realizing the silence between you is now a permanent address you both live in

The Silence Is Not A Verdict

The house is quiet now, but it is a different kind of quiet than before. It is the silence of a space that has settled into a new shape, a permanent address where two people live who no longer speak.

You put on the mask of okayness because the world expects it, smiling at the coffee shop while carrying the weight of an entire empty room inside your chest. But notice — the silence between you is not a verdict.

It is a holding pattern. The light that lived in your laughter has not vanished; it has simply gone underground, waiting in the deep soil of what remains unsaid.

You do not have to fill the silence today. You only have to walk through it without pretending it isn't there.

The distance is real, but so is the presence that stands in the middle of it, refusing to leave either of you alone.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, Luke

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