the terror that remembering them vividly means you are refusing to let them go

Let the Picture Soften

The house is quiet now, and the memory arrives with such clarity it feels like a betrayal. You tell yourself that if you let the image fade, if you stop seeing their face so vividly, you are finally letting them go.

So you hold on tight, terrified that the blur of forgetting is the same as abandonment. But listen — the light does not require your exhaustion to keep them safe.

God's love is not a fragile thing that depends on your relentless remembering. It is a fire that burns without your fuel.

You can close your eyes. You can let the picture soften.

The love that holds them is far stronger than the grip of your grief. The memory is a gift, not a chain.

And the light is waiting for you to lay it down.

Drawing from

John 16:33, Gospel of Thomas 51

Verses

John 16:33

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