You Are the Ground Where They Meet
The house is loud with a new tongue, a rhythm your parents' ears were never taught to catch. You stand in the middle of the room, translating life for the people who gave you yours, feeling the quiet ache of a bridge that only you can walk.
It is the long middle of the day, where the work is not dramatic but constant, a steady wearing down of the self to make space for two worlds. You feel like a stranger in your own skin, pulled between the root and the branch, belonging fully to neither.
But listen — the light does not speak one language only. It is the silence underneath the words, the understanding that lives before the translation begins.
Your parents may not catch every syllable your children say, but the love that carries those words is older than any dialect. It is the same love that held you when you were small, and it holds them now.
You are not the gap between them. You are the ground where they meet.
Drawing from
Gospel of Thomas, Luke
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