The Courage to Send Without Guarantees
The cursor blinks in the silence of the afternoon, a tiny rhythm counting out the seconds you've spent staring at a name you're afraid to send. You have typed the words that could bridge the distance, but your thumb hovers, frozen by the terror that the message will land in a void, or worse, that it will be read and left unseen.
The middle of the day is hard because it demands movement, and you feel paralyzed by the possibility that the door is already shut. But listen — the light does not calculate the odds of rejection before it shines.
It simply shines. It does not wait for a guarantee of welcome.
There is a courage in the sending that exists apart from the reply. You are not responsible for how the words are received, only for the honesty of offering them.
The silence you fear is not the final verdict. It is just the space where you learn that your worth is not held in their answer.
Drawing from
John 8:36, Luke 24:32
Verses
John 8:36
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