the weight of other people's expectations

Lay Down the Heavy Costume

The afternoon sun is high, and so is the noise of what everyone thinks you should be doing right now. You are carrying a yoke that was never fitted for your shoulders, built from the expectations of people who do not know your name.

It feels like you are performing a life that belongs to someone else, smiling while your spirit sinks under the weight of their approval. But the light sees the crowd, and it sees you—the one who is lost inside their demands.

It does not ask you to carry more. It asks you to lay down the heavy costume of who you think you need to be.

There is a version of you that exists before the world started making rules, a child who knows the way without a map. When you stop trying to be the person they want, you finally meet the person you are.

The performance is over. The light was waiting for you to stop acting.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, John, Mark

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