The Silence Was Not Rejection
The afternoon stretches out, long and quiet, and in that stillness, your mind replays the moment you spoke your fear. You hear the question you asked, and then the silence that followed it.
You wonder if your honesty was too heavy, if your vulnerability made them pull away. But listen — the silence was not a rejection.
It was a space. A moment where the other person was holding what you gave them, trying to find the right words, or simply sitting with the weight of your truth.
The light does not run from the things that shake you. When Jesus saw the paralyzed man lowered through the roof, he did not recoil at the desperation or the mess of the moment.
He saw their faith and said, 'Son, your sins are forgiven.' He met the brokenness with presence, not distance. If your fear made them pause, it was not because they were leaving.
It was because they were arriving. Bring forth what is within you, even the trembling parts.
What you bring forth will save you, not destroy you. The silence is not an ending.
It is the breath before the answer.
Drawing from
Mark 2:5, Gospel of Thomas 70
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