the terror that the silence after they stop talking proves they were never loved for themselves

Love Runs Before Words Are Spoken

The afternoon stretches out, long and quiet, and the silence feels like a verdict. You keep replaying the last conversation, waiting for the echo of affection, but hearing only the hollow sound of your own anxiety.

It whispers that if they stopped talking, they must have stopped loving you—that you were only ever loved for what you could say, not for who you are. But the light does not operate on the economy of performance.

There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off. He did not wait for the speech.

He did not wait for the apology to finish. Before the words could even form, he ran.

He ran because the love was already there, independent of the script. The silence after the talking stops is not proof of abandonment.

It is the space where the love that needs no words begins to breathe. You are not loved because you are interesting.

You are loved because you are.

Drawing from

Luke, John

Verses

Luke 15:20, John 15:15

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