the paralyzing fear that confessing your own needs will be the final straw that makes them leave

The Father Who Runs Before You Speak

The afternoon stretches out, a long, quiet middle where the weight of your own needs feels like a burden too heavy to name. You hold your breath, convinced that speaking your hunger will be the final straw that makes them walk away.

But there is a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off, still covered in the filth of his failure, and he did not wait for the apology — he ran. The light does not measure your worth by how little you ask.

It knows that the very fear of being too much is the lie that keeps you small. You were not sent into this world as a drop of light to be silent, but to illuminate the dark corners where you hide your thirst.

The one who is in you is greater than the fear that you might be abandoned.

Drawing from

Luke, Sophia of Jesus Christ, 1 John

Verses

Luke 15:20, Sophia of Jesus Christ 93:12-16, 1 John 4:4

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