staring at a sent text message for hours, convinced the recipient is silently judging your word choice

You Were Safe Before You Sent

The afternoon stretches long and flat, and you are still staring at the screen, replaying a message you sent hours ago. You are convinced the silence on the other end is a verdict, that your word choice is being dissected and found wanting.

But the light does not read your texts like a judge reviewing evidence. It sees the heart that typed them.

What you are waiting for has already arrived—the grace you think you lost in a typo or a clumsy phrase was never missing to begin with. You are looking for approval in a place where only presence exists.

The connection you fear is broken is actually held in a space deeper than any screen can show. Stop waiting for a reply to tell you that you are safe.

You were safe before you hit send.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, John

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