The Moment You Became Unlovable Never Happened
The sun has gone down, and now the room is quiet enough to hear the noise in your head. You are replaying every text, every inside joke, every silence from the last year, hunting for the exact second you became too much or not enough.
You are acting as both the accused and the judge, building a case out of memories that shift in the dark. But the light that knows you does not need your evidence.
It does not need you to solve the equation of your own worth before it can stay. There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off — he did not wait for the speech, he did not wait for the apology, he ran.
Before you could explain yourself, before you could list your failures, he was already there. You are searching for a moment that does not exist.
The moment you became unlovable never happened. The light sees the whole story, and it is still running toward you.
Drawing from
Luke, 1 John
Verses
Luke 15:20, 1 John 3:20
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