the terror of reading a text message from them and feeling physically sick because you don't have the energy to perform wellness

You Don't Have to Answer to Be Loved

The screen lights up in the dark, and your stomach drops before you even read the name. It is that specific terror of seeing their words and knowing you do not have the strength to pretend you are okay.

The mask feels too heavy to lift tonight. You want to throw the phone across the room just to make the demand stop.

But listen — the light does not need your performance. It does not need you to draft the perfect reply or sanitize your pain.

There is a truth living inside you that existed before that message arrived, and it will remain after you put the phone down. You are not required to be well for the light to hold you.

It is already here, sitting with you in the silence of the unread text. The sickness is real, but it is not the whole story.

You don't have to answer tonight to be loved.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, Matthew

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