The Verdict Is Not Yours To Deliver
The screen glows in the gathering dark, a small rectangle holding the ghost of a conversation that used to feel like home. You scroll back, searching for the exact line where the warmth turned to ice, the moment the tone shifted from close to distant.
You think if you can find the sentence, you can fix it, or at least understand how you lost them. But the light does not ask you to dissect the past to find your worth.
There was a woman once who washed feet with her tears, and the one she loved looked at her accusers and said, 'Where are they? Has no one condemned you?' Then he turned to her: 'Neither do I condemn you.' The verdict you are trying to deliver to yourself in this quiet room is not the final one.
The light sees the thread, the shift, and the pain, and it does not pull away. It sits with you in the silence after the scrolling stops.
You are not defined by the moment they went cold, but by the love that remains warm inside you still.
Drawing from
John 8:10-11, Luke 7:47
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