the paralyzing fear that bringing up the unsaid thing will finally confirm their resentment and break the relationship
The house is quiet now, but the thing you didn't say is screaming in your chest. You are holding your breath, convinced that if you finally speak the truth, the person you love will turn away for good.
You think your silence is the glue keeping the relationship intact. But silence is not glue; it is a wall.
And you are standing on the wrong side of it, alone. The light does not ask you to protect the peace by hiding your pain.
It asks you to trust that the connection is stronger than your fear. There is a love that does not depend on your performance or your perfect timing.
Bring forth what is within you, even if your voice shakes. What you hide to save the relationship will eventually destroy it.
But what you speak in love might just set you both free.
Drawing from
Gospel of Thomas, Gospel of John
Verses
Thomas 70, John 8:36
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