watching your adult child look at you with pity instead of pride

Scars Called Glory By Love

The house is quiet now, but that look from earlier still burns in the dark. You saw it in their eyes — not anger, not disappointment, but pity.

A soft, sad pity that says they think you are broken. It feels like a death, doesn't it?

To be looked at as something that needs fixing rather than someone to be proud of. But listen — the light inside you does not shrink when their vision dims.

There is a mercy that runs deeper than any human evaluation, a peace that does not depend on their approval. You are not defined by the sorrow in their gaze.

The truth living in you is greater than the story they are telling themselves about your failure. You do not need their pride to be whole.

You are already held by a love that sees your scars and calls them glory.

Drawing from

2 John, Jude

Verses

2 John 1:3, Jude 1:2

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