Love Does Not Need to Be Right
The house is quiet now, but not the good kind of quiet. It is the silence of a door that has stopped being knocked on.
You feel it in your chest—the terrifying realization that your child is no longer arguing, no longer slamming things, but quietly packing their bags in the mind. They are leaving before they even walk out the door.
And you stand in the hallway, paralyzed by the fear that you waited too long to say the right thing. But listen.
The light does not require a perfect record to stay. It does not pack its bags when you fail.
Go to them. Not with a lecture, not with a defense of your mistakes, but with the raw, trembling honesty of a parent who knows they have fallen short.
Tell them you see them. Tell them you are sorry.
The love that is real does not need to be right; it only needs to be present. The packing stops when the heart knows it is still home.
Drawing from
John 21:15-17, Matthew 26:38-39
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