You Are Not Stealing Love By Staying
The house is quiet now, and the only sound is the voice in your head telling you to leave. It says that staying is a theft—that by holding on, you are stealing love from someone who deserves better than your brokenness.
But look at the one asleep in the next room, or the memory of the one you are holding onto in the dark. Do they look like victims of a robbery?
Or do they look like people who chose to stay? The light does not calculate worth the way your fear does tonight.
There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off, covered in the filth of his own failure, convinced he had lost the right to be called a child. He did not wait for the apology.
He did not weigh the cost. He ran.
Before the speech, before the promise to do better—he ran. That running was not a mistake.
It was the truth. You are not stealing anything by remaining.
You are simply letting yourself be found. The fear says you are a burden.
The light says you are the one it was waiting for. The door is not locked from the inside; it is open because someone is still watching for you to come home.
Drawing from
Luke, Gospel of Thomas
Verses
Luke 15:20
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