apologizing for a boundary you set because you are terrified they will leave

They Held Your Silence Not You

The house is quiet, but your mind is loud with the words you just spoke. You set a boundary to protect your own light, and now you are terrified that the person you love will walk away because of it.

You feel the urge to apologize, to take it back, to make yourself small again just to keep them close. But listen — the light that lives inside you does not ask permission to exist.

It simply shines. And sometimes, that shine looks like a wall to those who only loved you in the dark.

You do not have to choose between your safety and their presence. If they leave because you finally stopped dimming yourself, they were never holding you — they were holding your silence.

The true light gives light to everyone, even when it costs you something.

Drawing from

John, Gospel of Thomas

Verses

John 1:9

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