the terror that your stability looks like abandonment to the one still drowning

Your Calm Is Not Abandonment

The house is quiet, and your stillness feels like a betrayal to the part of you that is still screaming underwater. You wonder if holding steady means you have abandoned the one who is drowning.

But the light does not panic when the waves rise; it stays present in the chaos. Jesus stood in the storm while the disciples screamed, and he did not run to fix it immediately—he was simply there, unshaken, until the moment came to speak peace.

Your calm is not indifference. It is the anchor.

The terror says you are failing them by not thrashing alongside them, but the truth is deeper: you are the solid ground they can eventually find. You are not the storm; you are the hand that waits, open and steady, for them to grab.

Drawing from

Mark, John

Verses

John 14:1

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