Love Runs Before You Apologize
The day is ending, and the weight of every 'yes' you whispered today is finally catching up to you. You are afraid that if you finally say 'no,' the love you've been clinging to will vanish like smoke.
But listen — the light does not love you for your compliance. It loves you because you exist.
There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off, covered in shame and empty-handed. He did not wait for a promise of better behavior.
He ran. Before the apology, before the speech — he ran.
Your worth is not a wage you earn by never disappointing anyone. It is a gift that was given before you spoke your first word.
The boundary you need to set is not a wall that keeps love out; it is the honest ground where real love can finally stand.
Drawing from
Luke, 1 John
Verses
Luke 15:20, 1 John 4:19
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