Stillness Is Not Violence But Honesty
The day is ending, and the armor you wore for twelve hours finally hits the floor. You catch yourself holding your breath around them, terrified that your own stillness is just another kind of violence.
You think your silence is a weapon, that your need to stop moving is a failure of love. But listen — the light does not demand your performance to feel safe.
There was a moment in a garden, heavy with coming sorrow, where the light itself fell on its face and begged for the cup to pass. It did not stay strong.
It did not stay busy. It collapsed.
And in that collapse, it was not violent — it was honest. Your stillness is not an attack.
It is the only place where you can finally remember who you are. The fear says you are hurting them by stopping.
The truth says you are finally letting yourself be held. Do not let your hearts be troubled by the quiet.
The peace you need is not the absence of tension. It is the presence of something that does not require you to speak to be loved.
Drawing from
Gospel of Mary 5:4-5, Matthew 26:38-39
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