Send It Imperfect, Send It Raw
The cursor blinks, a steady pulse in the middle of the screen. You type a sentence, then delete it.
Too much. You type another, then delete that one.
Too little. The afternoon stretches out, long and gray, filled with the quiet desperation of trying to get the tone just right.
You are afraid that if you send the truth, you will be too much. And if you send the mask, you will be invisible.
But the light does not require you to edit your hunger into something palatable. It does not ask you to measure out your need so you don't burden the person on the other end.
There is a voice that says: whatever is hidden is meant to be disclosed. The thing you are trying to hide — the desperate, messy, real part of you — is the very thing that connects.
Stop trying to craft the perfect message. The light is already in the trembling hand that wants to reach out.
Send it imperfect. Send it raw.
The connection is not in the polish. It is in the reach.
Drawing from
Mark, Gospel of Thomas
Verses
Mark 4:22
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