Joy Is Not A Betrayal Of Grief
The afternoon sun is bright, and for a second, you laugh. Then the silence rushes back in, heavy with the fear that this small moment of peace is a betrayal of the one you lost.
As if joy were a currency you spend at their expense. But the light does not keep a ledger of your grief.
It simply shines. In the middle of this long, ordinary day, remember that the capacity to feel warmth again is not a forgetting.
It is the very thing that was placed inside you before the pain ever arrived. You are not dishonoring the memory by breathing easier.
You are honoring the life that remains. The love you carry is large enough to hold both the sorrow and the sudden, unexpected smile.
Drawing from
John, Matthew
Verses
John 10:10, Matthew 6:34
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