Held in the Unread Silence
The afternoon stretches out, long and quiet, and your thumb keeps moving—refresh, refresh, refresh—waiting for those three little dots to appear. You are measuring your worth by the silence on the other end, convinced that if they just saw the message, everything would be okay.
But the light does not live in the notification bar. It lives in the stillness you are trying to scroll away.
Jesus once sighed deeply before speaking peace into a closed ear, not because he was frustrated, but because he felt the weight of the silence. He knows what it is to wait for a response that feels like it will never come.
Your value is not determined by who replies or who reads. You are held even in the unread silence.
The screen cannot tell you who you are. The light already knows your name without you having to send it.
Drawing from
Mark 7:34, Matthew 11:28-30
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