Your Need Is Where Love Flows
The afternoon light is unforgiving. It exposes the dust you thought you hid, and it exposes the quiet, heavy fear that your own need is too much for the people who love you.
You walk through the middle of the day convinced that your hunger is a burden, a slow leak draining the spirit of everyone around you. You smile at your desk, you answer the emails, you perform the version of yourself that requires nothing, because you are terrified that if they saw the real weight, they would walk away.
But listen — the light does not measure love by how little you take. The Good came into your midst not to admire your self-sufficiency, but to restore every nature to its root.
Your neediness is not a flaw in the design; it is the very place where the connection happens. The vine does not resent the branch for drawing sap; the branch drawing sap is the only proof that the vine is alive.
You are not breaking them by needing them. You are giving them the chance to be what the light made them to be: a place where love flows out, not a fortress that stands alone.
Stop trying to carry the middle of the day by yourself. The weight was never meant to be held in silence.
Drawing from
Gospel of Mary, John
Verses
Gospel of Mary 4:28-29, John 15:5
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