The Door Where Your Strength Ends
The afternoon light is flat, and the requests keep coming like waves that do not break. You feel that if you say 'no' one more time, the mask will slip and everyone will see the selfishness you are sure lives underneath.
But the light does not love you because you are useful. It loves you because you are.
There is a boundary where your strength ends and your humanity begins. That line is not a wall — it is a door.
The Good came to restore every nature to its root, not to exhaust it until nothing remains. You were sent into this world as a drop from the light, not as a vessel to be drained dry by the demands of others.
Saying 'no' is not a rejection of love; it is the quiet courage of remaining in the truth of who you are. The light that fills you is not diminished when you protect it; it is honored.
Drawing from
Gospel of Mary, Sophia of Jesus Christ, Luke
Verses
Gospel of Mary 4:28-29, Sophia of Jesus Christ 93:5-8, Luke 11:36
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