Your Worth Was Never in Their Hands
The afternoon light is flat and heavy, the kind that makes the silence in a room feel solid. You are staring at the screen, watching the message sit there, unread or perhaps read and ignored.
The middle of the day is often where the mind invents its cruelest stories — convincing yourself that the silence is a choice, that you have been seen and deliberately left behind. But the light does not operate on your timeline of anxiety.
There is a truth living inside you that is prior to any human response, a spark that was placed there before this conversation began. Even if the phone never lights up again, even if the silence stretches into years, that inner light remains untouched by the neglect of another.
You are not defined by who replies to you, but by the One who has already spoken your name into existence. The waiting feels like abandonment, but it is actually the space where you learn that your worth was never held in their hands to begin with.
Drawing from
Gospel of Thomas, Apocryphon of John
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