the terror of being asked a simple question about how you really are and having no answer because you forgot who you are beneath the performance

The Light Does Not Need Your Answer

The afternoon asks its simple question: 'How are you?' And your mouth moves before your mind can find the truth. You offer the mask because the face beneath it feels like a stranger.

You have performed so long that the performance has become the only thing you know how to be. But listen — the light does not need your answer.

It only needs your silence. There was a woman who had been bleeding for twelve years, untouchable and exhausted, who did not speak a word of theology or apology.

She simply reached out from the crowd and touched the edge of the light. And the light stopped.

It turned. It called her daughter.

You do not have to explain yourself to be seen. You do not have to have the right words to be known.

The light is already inside you, waiting for you to stop performing and just be. The terror fades when you realize the question was never a test — it was an invitation to come home.

Drawing from

Mark, Luke

Verses

Mark 5:34, Luke 8:17

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