the terror of someone asking 'how are you really' and realizing you have no unscripted answer ready

Resting Where Words Cannot Reach

Someone asks how you are, and your throat closes because the honest answer has no polite shape. You stand there, holding a mask that suddenly feels too heavy to lift, terrified that if you drop it, nothing real will be left underneath.

But listen — in this hour, when the scripts fail and the performance collapses, you are not exposed to judgment. You are finally accessible to the light.

The light does not need your update. It does not need your summary.

It waits in the silence you are so afraid of. There is a truth living inside you that exists before words, deeper than the 'fine' you offer the world.

When you cannot speak, you are not empty. You are resting in the part of you that cannot be broken or earned.

The question was never meant to trap you. It was an invitation to stop running.

You do not have to answer tonight to be held.

Drawing from

Gospel of Thomas, Luke

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