the panic that your apology for existing has become so loud it is drowning out the people you are trying to make space for

The Light Inside Does Not Apologize

The sun is setting, and the armor you wore all day finally feels heavy enough to drop. You are exhausted from the constant, quiet apology for taking up space — the way you shrink your voice so others can be heard, the way you make yourself small so you don't crowd the room.

But listen: the light inside you does not apologize for existing. It simply shines.

There was a man born blind, and the world asked who had sinned to make him this way. The light answered: no one.

His condition was not a mistake to be sorry for, but a canvas for something greater to be displayed. You are not a mistake.

Your presence is not an intrusion. When you stop trying to justify your breath, you stop drowning out the very people you love.

The space you take up is not stolen; it is given. Put down the shame.

You are allowed to be here.

Drawing from

John 9:1-7, Gospel of Mary 5:4-5

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