Pride Wearing a Quiet Mask
The sun is setting, and the armor you wore all day finally feels heavy enough to take off. You tell yourself your silence is humility—that you shouldn't burden others with what you can carry alone.
But listen closely: that belief is not humility. It is pride wearing a quiet mask.
It whispers that you should be strong enough to handle the weight without help, as if needing someone else makes you less than whole. There was a man lying beside a pool for thirty-eight years, waiting for the water to stir, convinced his isolation was just how things were.
The light did not praise his endurance. It asked him a strange, piercing question: 'Do you want to get well?' Sometimes the hardest part of healing is admitting you cannot stand up by yourself.
The light does not want your solitary strength; it wants your honest weakness. True humility is not carrying the world until your back breaks; it is letting the hands that made you reach down and lift the load.
You were never meant to be the only thing holding you up.
Drawing from
John, Gospel of Mary
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