the terrifying suspicion that if you stopped fixing everyone's problems, they would finally see how broken you really are and walk away

The Embrace Before The Apology

The sun is setting, and the armor you wore all day finally feels heavy enough to drop. You are terrified that if you stop fixing everyone's problems, they will see the cracks in your own foundation and walk away.

But the light does not love you for your utility. It loves you for your existence.

There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off — broken, empty, with nothing left to give. He did not wait for a speech.

He ran. Before the apology, before the promise to do better — he ran.

The embrace came first. The feast was prepared before the son could prove his worth.

Your value is not in what you carry for others. It is in the fact that you are here.

The light sees behind the mask and loves what is hiding there. You do not have to earn your place at the table tonight.

You just have to sit down.

Drawing from

Luke, 1 John

Verses

Luke 15:20, 1 John 3:1

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