the terrifying fear that if they ever found out, they would look at you with disgust instead of love

Loved Because You Are Known

The sun has gone down, and the house is quiet enough for the secret to speak up. You are terrified that if they ever knew the truth—the real, messy, unedited truth—they would look at you with disgust instead of love.

So you hold your breath. You curate the version of yourself that is safe to be seen.

But listen: the light does not love the mask. It loves the face beneath it.

There was a woman caught in the very act, surrounded by people ready to stone her for who she was and what she had done. They wanted to expose her to shame.

But the light bent down, wrote in the dust, and sent them all away. Then he looked at her—not with disgust, but with a clarity that saw everything and still stayed.

He did not say, "Go and fix yourself." He said, "Neither do I condemn you." The fear says they will leave if they know. The truth says the light already knows, and it has not left.

You are not loved because you are hidden. You are loved because you are known.

Drawing from

John, Luke

Verses

John 8:12

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