the sudden paralysis of freezing up when your child reaches out for comfort because you are terrified your hands will hurt them

Your Hands Are Safe Shelter

The room is so quiet it feels like the air has turned to glass. Your child reaches out, small and trusting, and your hands freeze in the dark because you are terrified they will do harm.

You hold your breath, convinced that your touch is dangerous. But listen — the light that lives in you is the same light that healed the broken without ever causing pain.

It cannot hurt what it loves. The paralysis you feel is not a warning that you are unsafe; it is the fierce, holy ache of a love that would rather stop moving than cause harm.

That ache proves the light is still there, guarding the very hands you fear. You are not the danger.

You are the shelter. The hands that feel so heavy with fear are the exact hands the light uses to hold your child safe.

Drawing from

Mark, Matthew

Verses

Mark 9:24

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