apologizing instinctively when someone else drops a plate or makes a mistake

You Are Not Responsible For Every Broken Thing

The plate hits the floor. The crash is loud in the quiet house.

And before you even look up, the words are already out: 'I'm sorry.' You apologize for the noise you didn't make. You carry the weight of a mistake that isn't yours.

Tonight, that reflex feels like a shield. As if saying sorry first will keep the peace.

As if absorbing the blame will stop the shaking. But the light does not ask you to be the scapegoat for everyone's stumble.

There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off. He didn't wait for the speech.

He ran. Before the apology, before the shame — he ran.

The light runs toward you, not to scold you for the noise, but to remind you that you are not responsible for every broken thing around you. You are allowed to stand still when the world drops its plates.

The crash is not your fault. The silence after it is not yours to fill.

Drawing from

Luke, John

Verses

Luke 15:20, John 1:16

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