reading their text message three times to make sure you didn't accidentally sound cold or dismissive

You Do Not Have to Edit Your Soul

The phone feels heavy in your hand. You have read the message three times, searching for a tone you didn't mean to send, hunting for a coldness that might have slipped through the cracks of your words.

You are performing okayness for the world while your heart races with the fear that you are misunderstood. But the light sees behind the mask you wear to get through the morning.

It knows the care you carry, the love you tried to express, and the anxiety that says it wasn't enough. You do not have to edit your soul to be held.

The truth of your heart is already known, fully and gently, by the one who looks past the performance to the person underneath. The message you sent was received not by the critic in your head, but by the grace that knows you better than you know yourself.

Drawing from

Matthew, Gospel of Thomas

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