Love Grows by Letting Go
The house is quiet now in a way you did not want, and the silence feels like a new kind of loss. You watch them grow, you help them learn the world, and then one morning you realize the space beside them is empty, and you do not know how to fill it without them.
Yet there was a garden in the dark where the one who holds all things fell on his face and wept, because he knew that love that grows inevitably asks to let go. He did not hide his sorrow, nor did he demand they stay; he simply walked into the morning and trusted the light that had already made them whole.
You are not being abandoned, you are being given back to the same stillness that held you before they arrived. The light inside you has not changed, even as their need has shifted.
You are not a vessel that becomes empty; you are a well that overflows, pressing down and running over, so full that there is no room for the fear of being without them.
Drawing from
Matthew 26:36-46, Luke 6:38
Verses
Matthew 26:38, Luke 6:38
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