Your Regret Is Proof You Love
The house is quiet now, but your mind is replaying the exact tone you used when you finally spoke. You hear the sharpness, the defensiveness, the way your voice pushed them away instead of pulling them close.
In the watch of the night, regret feels like a verdict. But listen — the light that lives inside you was there before you spoke, and it is there now, unchanged by the sound of your voice.
Jesus saw a woman once who wet his feet with her tears, and he said her great love showed she had been forgiven much. Your regret is not proof that you are lost; it is proof that you love.
The tone you used does not define you. The love underneath it does.
Go home to your own heart; the light has not left the room.
Drawing from
Luke 7:44-48, Gospel of Thomas 3
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