Love Changes Shape When Children Grow
The house is quiet now, and the silence feels heavy because the footsteps you used to follow are gone. It hurts to realize that the hands you held are no longer needing your help, and the ache says you are no longer necessary.
But listen—love does not end when it is no longer needed; it simply changes shape. The light that guided them is the same light that still lives inside you, untouched by their distance or their growing up.
You are not a lamp that has been extinguished because the room is full; you are the light itself that remains, even when the children have their own candles lit. —The love that was given is not lost; it is the very thing that travels with them, and it is the very thing that keeps you warm in the dark.
Drawing from
John, Luke
Verses
John 1:4-5, Luke 15:20
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