the terrifying belief that your worth is entirely contingent on how much you sacrifice for others

Rest Before You Earn Your Worth

The house is quiet now, and the only sound is the heavy tally of everything you gave away today. You are lying here believing that if you stop sacrificing, you will cease to matter—that your worth is a debt you must constantly pay to the people around you.

But listen closely to the silence—the light that lives inside you was there before you ever gave a single thing, and it remains untouched by your exhaustion. There was a father who saw his son coming home from a long way off, broken and empty-handed.

He did not wait for an apology or a promise to do better. He ran.

Before the speech, before the work—he ran to meet him. Your value is not something you earn by burning yourself down for others.

It is a gift that was placed inside you before you took your first breath. The light does not ask you to bleed to be seen.

It simply asks you to rest.

Drawing from

Luke, Gospel of Thomas

Verses

Luke 15:20, Thomas 24

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