rehearsing the lie you'll tell your child tonight about why the phone stopped ringing

The Lie Is Heavier Than The Truth

The house is quiet now, and the armor you wore all day finally hits the floor. But there is one piece you cannot take off yet—the lie you are rehearsing for your child about why the phone stopped ringing.

You practice the words in the silence, smoothing out the edges so they won't see the jagged truth beneath. You think you are protecting them by hiding the rejection, the silence, the way the world didn't call back today.

But the light does not need your performance to love you, and it certainly does not need your child to believe a story you invented to make the pain look like choice. There is a peace available that does not require you to be the hero of your own story tonight.

The truth is heavy, yes, but the lie is heavier—and it keeps you standing when your soul is begging to sit. You do not have to explain the silence to be held through it.

Drawing from

John 8:32, Mark 6:34

Verses

John 8:32

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