the terror that your honest anger has made you unlovable to the very one you're angry at

The Light That Stays In Your Fire

The day is ending, and the armor you wore to survive it feels heavy now. You are terrified that the heat of your honest anger has burned the bridge back to the One you love.

But listen — the light does not retreat from your fire. It stands at the door and knocks, waiting for you to stop performing peace and start telling the truth.

There is no fear in love, and perfect love drives out the fear that your rage has made you unlovable. Your anger is not a wall; it is a door.

And the One you are angry at is already on the other side, not to condemn the heat, but to sit with you in it.

Drawing from

1 John, Revelation

Verses

1 John 4:18, Revelation 3:20

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